So it’s been on my bucket list for a while to run a marathon. Even though I have run some half marathons a marathon just seemed so far out there. I remember completing my first half marathon. I can remember running across the finish line and actually thinking at that very moment that I could not imagine running another 13.1 miles. I was just so happy to be done at that point!
It was still on my list though. The first of this year I told Chris that I either wanted us to have another baby this year (I was really dreading the fact that Stewart would be starting Kindergarten) or I wanted to run a marathon. He quickly agreed to help me train. So I thought about it but really didn’t do much to reach my goal. I did train and run a half marathon in April. I set a new PR that I was pretty proud of, but after that my running was put on the backburner. That was until I was invited in September to join a Saturday morning runner’s boot camp at my kiddos school. I have always been in awe of Erin and her running accomplishments. She is in the elite club of runners who have run a marathon in each of the 50 states. She was training to try to qualify for Boston at the Rocket City Marathon in December. Not until that first Saturday I joined the boot camp did I know that there were some other local runners planning to also run it. They had been training for a few weeks, so they were ahead of me. I had not run in months. Erin took me under her wing and assured me that I had time. She told me I could be ready. I believed her and began my journey of training for my first ever marathon.

(Erin and I before the start of the 2010 Rocket City Marathon)
Erin has mentored/trained/coached so many runners through their first marathon. These are the ladies I have been training with. Erin trained Beth for her first marathon a couple years ago. She shared with her daughter, Jane, her love of running. Jane is now an accomplished runner and was the 4:30 pacer for this year’s marathon. Erin has now helped Emily and myself reach our goal of completing our first marathon.

(L to R: Beth, Emily, Erin, Jane, and me)
So Chris and I decided to stay the night at the hotel where the marathon started so that we could get a little extra sleep the night before. We went out to dinner so I could get my carb load. :-) The next morning my running buddies came to our room to hang out and make one last visit to the bathroom. Much better than a cold port-a-potty! Then we headed out to meet a couple more ladies from Fayetteville who were running that morning.

(L to R: Me, Melissa, Helen, Emily, Erin and Beth)
It is so nice to have your own official race photographer. Haha! Not really official, but Chris is wonderful! There will be more about that later.
I’ve talked about the trouble I have been having with my legs. I was thrilled that by race day they were feeling much better! Jane was the 4:30 pacer. That was the time Erin had to cross the finish line in order to qualify for Boston. I didn’t know if I could run the entire marathon at that pace, but I was going to try. I knew that I was feeling good, would be high on adrenaline and decided to start with the 4:30 pacers along with Erin.
We started off great. It was so nice to run with a group. I had never done that before and everyone was really chatty. That helped considering that headphones were prohibited in this race. I don’t usually wear headphones in a race, but I had never run this distance either.
I didn’t know where I would be seeing Chris. We had looked at the spectator map together, but it didn’t make a lot of sense to me. Most of the time I was running I had no idea where I was. I did know where I was on mile 5 and I was thrilled to spot him as we crossed the street.

I threw him my headband I had taken off on mile one and would have thrown him my jacket if I didn’t have the pocket full of fuel. Erin and I were doing good and right on pace. I hoped to see him again soon.
Times to this point:
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- Mile 1 – 9:59
- Mile 2 – 10:19
- Mile 3 – 10:08
- Mile 4 – 10:00
- Mile 5 – 9:59
The next time he magically appeared was between miles 10 and 11.

I was still on pace, but I think this was one probably the hardest stretch of the run. It was flat, but was long, straight and windy. I didn’t really enjoy this part of the run. I was a little behind most of my group, but still on pace.
- Mile 6 – 10:02
- Mile 7 – 9:47
- Mile 8 – 10:05
- Mile 9 – 10:01
- Mile 10 – 10:19
This stretch I spent some time with a couple gentlemen who were experienced marathon runners. I am so glad that Chris got this shot of Bill. It’s not a very flattering shot of me, but I am glad to have it of Bill. He started out with our pace group, and he and I ran the majority of the marathon in close proximity. He was such an encouragement to me and knew just what to say and when to say it.

I didn’t get the second gentleman’s name, but we talked for a long while. He was from California and was on a quest to complete a marathon in each of the 50 states. I told him this was my first marathon, and he thanked me for taking up the sport. He said he started running marathons in 1984, and he estimated that there were 25% of the number marathons then that there is now. We laughed about how some people had no idea how long a marathon was. We laughed about the times we had been asked if a marathon was like a 5k. He told me that when I finished my marathon I would be among the 1% of the population. Pretty cool statistic, huh?!
- Mile 11 – 10:11
- Mile 12 – 10:23
- Mile 13 – 10:30
Now just like on my long training runs when I reach that half marathon mark my pace starts to slow.
- Mile 14 – 10:54
- Mile 15 – 10:43
My pace was starting to slow, but I was with a lot of the others who had also started with the 4:30 pace group. Someone said at this point, “Where is that girl with the sign?!” On mile 16 I stopped for a bathroom break. So this next mile includes standing in line at the port-a-potty.
This would also be the next mile I would see Chris. I was really surprised to see him because I had absolutely no idea where I was. He told me after the race about how nice a police woman had been to him there. He was looking for a place to park so he could get out and take pictures. She told him to park his truck in the middle of the street. I have to say that all the policemen and women were so nice. I tried to thank each one as I crossed a street where they had stopped traffic, and they were all so nice and so encouraging!

After taking my potty break, I could no longer see Erin and Jane. I knew that I was not going to reach my goal of 4:30, and I was just praying that Erin would.
- Mile 17 – 11:54
- Mile 18 – 10:39
- Mile 19 – 11:36
Somewhere before mile 20 there were some spectators standing by the curb in front of their home. They had a sign with on of my favorite scriptures:
…let us run with endurance the race that is set before us… Hebrews 12:1
I told them it was one of my scriptures and thanked them for being there. I needed it.
Side note: There were some really great signs. My favorite one read: Chuck Norris never ran a marathon!
Bill and I were once again running together. I paused to walk and he encouraged me to run to the stop light at the top of the hill. I told him I was tired. He told me there were just 6 miles left and asked me how many times I had run 6 miles. Just like he was my dad, I did what he said. I ran to the stop light at the top of the hill and then ran all the way down and through the tunnel.
Somewhere between mile 20 and 21 Chris was standing on a corner waiting for me. Once again I had no idea where I was, but he had found me. At that point I was so tired. I had just thought that I wished I could see him. I didn’t know if I would see him again before the finish line, but I could really use a familiar face.

I didn’t see him until I was almost to him. I looked up and there he was. I remember telling him that I was so glad to see him. I told him I was so tired and tears flooded my eyes. He kissed me. Told me I only had 6 miles to go, and he would see me at the finish line. As I ran on, I couldn’t breath. It was as if I was hyperventilating. I stopped, walked and caught my breath. Bill caught up to me and asked me if I knew that fellow. I told him I had been married to him for 17 years and had been with him since I was 17 years old. He said that it didn’t sound like I was ready to trade him in yet. We kept going.
- Mile 21 – 12:17
- Mile 22 – 12:09
- Mile 23 – 12:26
It was somewhere on mile 23 that I had a talk with God. I asked Him to help me get through these last 3 miles. That I had run 3 miles many times, I had trained for this, and just to give me the strength to keep going. So much of running is mental. At this point my legs were just exhausted. It was going to take my mind to get me through.
Bill asked me here how many times I had run 2 miles. Many, many times.
I had been walking/running with Bill. When my watch hit mile 25 I told him I was going to have to run if there was anyway I was going to finish in 4:45. He told me to go, and I did. I was tired, but I am proud to say I ran mile 26 in 10:42.
Now, my watch was off from the actual course. My watch was registering the miles about .25 mile before the official race mile marker. I suppose this is because I may have weaved some from side to side getting through traffic. Plus crossing streets for breaks. So I wasn’t thinking about that when I set off to run that last mile.

As I made the last turn I could see the finish line. I started watching for Chris. Never did I expect to see these two waiting for me at the finish line.

Oh, when I saw them I about lost it. My eyes filled with tears. I knew I was going to be emotional when I finished, but just having them there! It made it so much more special. My sister had brought them down so that they could be there to see me finish.
I ran through the finish line, and a handler put a wrap around me, my finisher’s medal around neck and handed me my hat. My official time was 4:49:42. Not my goal, but I have never been prouder of an accomplishment.

It was so sweeter having my girls there with me. Such a wonderful surprise. They and their daddy are so sneaky. I really had no idea. It wasn’t until Sunday that it hit me that I didn’t get a photo with Chris. That makes me a little sad, but I will always remember him being there and supporting me the entire way.
The first thing I asked when I saw Jane after I had finished was if Erin qualified. She didn’t. She like me ran out of steam. She finished about 5 minutes before I did. I was disappointed for her, but she was OK. I know she had to be disappointed, but just like so many others said that day I knew that she was just thankful to be able to be running.

I may have not finished in the time I had hoped, but I finished. Just a short while ago I thought 26.2 miles was an impossible distance. I did something that I never would have thought possible for me.

My sweet husband said that he used to think the Marathon Runner was just a myth, but he had seen 1,500 of them that morning.
He’s now married to one.